How to Get a Guy to Like You

If you are looking for a boyfriend or you want to be able to attract men to you with less effort I will give you a few tricks on how to get a guy to like you.
In the article on how to attract a man we already talked about the idea of attraction and you got a general outline on how important attraction is now I will give you a some practical tips you can apply on your interactions with men.
These tips to make a guy more attracted to you can also intensify and amplify the attraction that a guy has for you already.

Failure: There Is No Such Thing…

Before we delve further into the subject we have to talk a little bit about failure and experimentation. Have you noticed that even the most successful women made many mistakes in relationships, with their career, with money and with friends? The reality is that the successful people had more failures than other people… simply because they try more and harder. The point I want to make is that making mistakes gives you a great advantage: you will learn a big lesson because as humans we learn best by failure.
What separates the successful women from the unsuccessful ones is how they react to failure. Successful people learn from their mistakes and they don’t make the same mistake twice. The next time this woman is in a similar situation her reaction won’t be the same. After making the mistake once it is less likely to happen again… this is true in every area of life… except in relationships and dating.

The Same Mistakes Over and Over Again

So why do the most successful women learn and improve their skills in almost every aspect of their life but not in dating and relationships? Even the women that go through the most painful situations in relationships don’t get the pattern! Most of the times it is not even their fault; they suffer because it’s the man’s fault. In other times it’s the woman’s issues or a mix of each partner’s issues.
Often it’s the more intelligent women that make the same mistakes over and over again and they have it the hardest to move on and stop suffering with it.

Is It A Hollywood Movie?

After years of studying men and women I know that the mainstream advice (what you read in magazines and bestselling books) doesn’t work and is counterproductive because it just keeps you going in circles.
What really works is not that obvious and these are things that you learn from experience and by analyzing patterns and previous relationships in an objective way.
What really creates and maintains attraction is very counter intuitive and goes against some social preconceptions and trends of the romantic Hollywood movies.

Wanted: Young, Beautiful and ______?

The first thing that you need to understand is that young and good looking women have some advantages but that is not the only thing that men are looking for.
Men feel attracted to more than that and want to settle down with a woman that is more than just attractive. Good looks are not what most guys are looking for… and guys that are looking for trophy girls are not the best relationship material.
What men are looking for is a woman that has her personal life and personality in check… what I mean by this is that men look for a woman that behaves like a good companion that stimulates intellectual attraction at a level that is deeper than the physical level.
The reality is that not every woman was born with the personality and the looks that attract great men without any effort. What is important to get out of this is that looks and age are not everything. You can learn how tocreate attraction on a physical and intellectual level if you want to.

Do You Have An Attractive Personality?

I am sure you have seen women that don’t have any problem attracting great guys… they don’t have to do any effort at all. These women can be very good looking, they can have a very magnetic personality or they can have both.
It’s almost certain that this woman attracts these men without ever having studied attraction or relationships. These women have a natural ability to relate to men and they have learned it in a natural way while they were growing up.
These women can attract and keep a guy attracted without having to do anything… guys just seem to gravitate towards them, approach them and want to seduce them. Even the men that are hard to get go up to them, try to seduce them and change into the perfect boyfriends for them.
Knowing women like these is a great way to see live examples of what we are talking about, you can learn a lot from that. These girls have never worried about relationships and scarcity of guys… they always have guys that want to be in bed or in a relationship with them.
For these women everything has become intuitive and easy, they do it without even realizing it and they haven’t gone through the natural process of making big mistakes and learning from them. These people are the exception, the rest of us have to learn from our many mistakes.
Now the real question is what can we learn from these women that are successful in relationships… and what can we learn from our own mistakes? What can we learn from other people’s successes and mistakes when it comes to dating, relationships and love? Now that you have a better idea on how to get a guy to like you we will talk about the personality traits that these successful women have and how you can adopt these qualities. To know more check out the continuation in the article on how to attract men.